Your partner gets a view from behind, and the whole thing feels really animalistic and hot because you're just going for it without even seeing your partner's face. You're in charge and the view means your partner can see you being percent in charge, so work with it. One of the questions my friends ask a lot is "What do I do with my arms?! The only problem is, if you're used to taking a less dominant role, then it can be a little intimidating to be on top. But first, check out our video on sex positions for small penises:. Once you get your balance, you can use your arms and hands for other things. Whether you go for a chair or just have them leaning against the wall or a pillow in bed, you can get a more face-to-face, intimate experience to change up this position. Just be careful if your partner has a penis not to break it.