So let's unpick this: what was Amber Rose trying to achieve? With these simple words, illustrated with a single erect finger emoji, our image of Kanye had shifted from "angry dominant auteur" to submissive man, lying on his back with his feet in the air, purring as he's fingered in the butt. Historically, oral sex was taboo, and now it's sexual bread and butter. And yeah, it was weird but good. To be honest, probably because it feels like it shouldn't happen, like it's a bad thing. So it happened for the first time in your mid-twenties. But, for now, there's still a barrier straight men have to get over before they can admit they like a finger in the butt.