When we got to the penetration it was way too painful for her so I stopped , lay next to her and said we could take as long as she needed. We had a mini honeymoon in Vienna, and were pretty much in bed the whole time. She barely spoke a word then went to sleep. It was about 2am before we finally got started. A beginner's guide to kinky sex. She definitely reveals too much about her personal life on the Internet. FabSwingers - What's is really like.