During sex with a male partner, dab a few little droplets of lube onto his perineum —aka the extra-sensitive spot between his scrotum and anus. The vagina responds more to pressure rather than friction, sex therapist Cyndi Darnell previously explained to Cosmopolitan. Every sexual encounter can be improved upon by using lube. Now imagine using that same toy to gently glide over your clitoris with the same power, but a totally different, more fluid sensation. But if your partner is looking for more ways to increase feeling while being protected, Eric Garrison, sexologist and author of Mastering Multiple-Position Sex, has a suggestion. By lubing yourself up, you have more room to amp up the pleasure-inducing pressure without the potential of an underwear rug-burn.