As you're sitting on the couch together, or over dinner, recall your best, sexiest memories. And in this case, practice makes perfect! Try something like, "I was looking out the window when you were mowing the lawn. That tradition will likely catch on, so doing it after any excursion may become a delicious habit. If that's not your speed, just spend some time thinking in detail about the last time you had sex, which will help rev your appetite. The key here is to identify those times that your partner looks sexy or really impresses you, and tell him rather than keep it to yourself, says Dr.